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posted by [personal profile] imaginarycircus at 11:37am on 03/11/2010
Someone on my flist (I'm being vague on purpose--she can out herself if she wants to, or not) posted about the Stewart/Colbert Rally to restore sanity and/or fear and said that she found that particular use of "sanity" ableist. I've been going round in circles and I just don't know what to think.

Sanity is clearly set up in opposition to fear mongering in this case. So that right there made me think they don't mean sane as in mentally sound or healthy. They meant sane, as in reasonable and rational. But can you use those words without clipping mental illness as you pass by?

I have a long history of depression and anxiety. I have had those things warp my world view and screw up my ability to deal with normal life pressures and expectations. I've wept on the way to work because I felt like everyone could see how screwed up I was just by glancing at me. I have depression that will not go away and I may have to be on meds for the rest of my life in order to function. The thing is that I do not have the sort of metal illness that causes me to have delusions or really fractures my reality though I do think I have been very unreasonable at times when my depression was unchecked by meds--I have never been as disconnected from reality as my mother used to sometimes get when she was manic.

I think I really just don't find this particular use of "sanity" ableist, but I have this sneaking suspicion that I might be wrong.
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posted by [identity profile] ihlanya.livejournal.com at 03:40pm on 03/11/2010
*raises paw*

I'm with you on the long term depression and lifelong meds. And I'm with you on the issue of 'sanity'.

Heck, to my mind (insane as it is), I feel quite happy to be completely non-pc and use words like insanity. People who get offended at that kind of stuff would get offended at something I say sooner or later.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 03:46pm on 03/11/2010
I totally understand why she was offended and I respect that. I just don't think I am offended, but I think I am interpreting the word differently.
 
posted by [identity profile] firynze.livejournal.com at 03:59pm on 03/11/2010
I have some issues with declaring things to be "ableist" or "racist" or yadda yadda yadda, because in many cases, it's just looking for an excuse to be upset, when there are more productive things that could be done with one's ire and righteous indignation - like actually working to make businesses accessible, or to get political videos close-captioned, or to get mental health coverage for everyone who needs it.

But then, I'm bitter.

And I really don't see this use of "sanity" as at all ableist. Saying that it is indicates a clear lack of knowledge of other definitions of the term, since it does, as you say, reference "reasonable and rational" rather than "not crazy."
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 04:02pm on 03/11/2010
Well, I don't want to judge other people for being offended by something. I do think calling people on their use of offensive language is important and necessary, though not always productive.
 
posted by [identity profile] firynze.livejournal.com at 04:04pm on 03/11/2010
Like I said, I'm bitter. I get very cranky when people spend more time yelping about how offended they are instead of actually working to DO something.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 04:08pm on 03/11/2010
I try to give people the benefit of the doubt that they do do things. But I also see calling people on offensive language doing something, which you should feel free to disagree with me about--obviously. :D
 
posted by [identity profile] firynze.livejournal.com at 04:09pm on 03/11/2010
Calling people on offensive language IS doing something. And it is necessary in many cases. I just don't think this is one of them, you know? It really feels like someone's just looking to have a snit.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 04:10pm on 03/11/2010
Ah. OK. Well, I don't think that's what she was doing. But we can disagree about that.
 
posted by [identity profile] ladyofthelog.livejournal.com at 05:03pm on 03/11/2010
It makes me frothing mad, but I sadly don't have time to explain right now because I'm running off to lunch with [livejournal.com profile] wlotus. Is the person you're referring to me? I can unpack this when I get home.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 05:04pm on 03/11/2010
No, it's not you. I didn't even know you were upset about it! D:
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posted by [personal profile] subluxate at 05:19pm on 03/11/2010
It took me awhile to come to the conclusions I did--I spent from the time it was announced until the week before the rally to decide how I felt about it, and then that time until I posted to figure out how to word things (and I still don't think I did it justice). There are multiple meanings here, but I honestly don't think "sanity" can be fully divorced from the mental health meaning.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 05:21pm on 03/11/2010
I'm starting to see that, but I still feel confusion.
 
posted by [identity profile] kessie.livejournal.com at 05:27pm on 03/11/2010
I wouldn't consider that use of sanity to be ableist. I would consider in terms of calming down and trying to see the wood for the trees. Which I'm very much in favour of considering what everything is like lately.

I always get a bit prickly when people start labelling words with only one meaning. Many words have different meanings for people and some of them have had different meanings throughout history. It really boils down to the intention of the person using the word. But that's a topic for another day.

I have various levels of depression and messed-up mental health, and I still refer to pajama days as 'getting my sanity back and calming the fuck down'. *shrugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 05:37pm on 03/11/2010
I largely agree with you. But I know smart people who were upset by this particular use and I am trying to see their side and make sure I am not just failing to check my own privilege.
 
posted by [identity profile] kessie.livejournal.com at 05:42pm on 03/11/2010
I'm largely coming to this from my own personal experience of crossed wires and someone refusing to see the other side. But I can also see why people would be upset at the use of that word.
 
posted by [identity profile] bradamant.livejournal.com at 05:29pm on 03/11/2010
Words change their meanings over time, and I think this is a case where people are putting their interpretations behind a newer or older definition of a word. Today, we don't have any problem calling someone an idiot or moron, because those words are no longer used for the developmentally disabled. I know some people who think it's okay to say something's "retarded" because that word's no longer used for the developmentally disabled, and others who think that's absolutely terrible. To me, "sanity" has moved on from its mental health definition to refer to beliefs that are reasonable and well-thought-out, but it doesn't surprise me that other people think of it as a medical term and are offended.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 05:45pm on 03/11/2010
I find all of those words problematic and try very hard not to use them. Sanity? I think it does have various meanings. I believe context and intent are important here. And I don't mean "good intentions" I mean when a person means something and uses a word to communicate it know that the word has other meanings.
 
posted by [identity profile] bradamant.livejournal.com at 06:06pm on 03/11/2010
I don't think any of them are desirable! But comedians are always going to teeter on the border between funny and offensive. It's obviously problematic that we still so easily co-opt words related to health issues and turn them into insults.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 06:09pm on 03/11/2010
YES! THIS!
 
posted by [identity profile] selie.livejournal.com at 05:39pm on 03/11/2010
As a person living with bipolar disorder (and I do semi-jokingly refer to myself as crazy), I would never even have thought to be offended by this use of "sanity." In no way do I see these rallies as trying to equate what they protest (out-of-control political ideology, etc.) with mental illness. "Insanity" is a very loose term and I don't honestly think it's used specifically to refer to mental illness all that often. And, frankly, I agree with them - when people start frothing at the mouth trying to stir up panic and fear with extremist views, I'm inclined to view that as its own sort of craziness.

Personally, I'm more annoyed when people say things like "the weather has been so bipolar lately" or "she's totally bipolar - nice one minute and then she snaps." In that case, it mostly bothers me because it perpetuates the misconceptions of what bipolar disorder is. I've had to explain to far too many people that it doesn't mean I go from being happy to sad without warning, which seems to be the common-usage understanding of the word.

So in this case, I'm inclined to agree with your friend above who said people are "just looking to have a snit." This may be an unpopular response, but there you have it.

(Is it okay that I reply to your posts? I know we don't really know each other, but I find you very interesting. I guess in some ways I relate to you because I'm also a writer with a mental illness, and it can be very reassuring to hear about other people who share and overcome the same struggles.)
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 05:50pm on 03/11/2010
You can absolutely comment! Yeah, I'm on the fence here because people I care about are upset about this issue and I'm just sitting with different perspectives and trying to see as many possible sides as I can.

I often feel like I got off easy on the mental illness thing because my mother had crippling agoraphobia and panic attacks on top of her bipolar II. She went untreated for many years and her life was so hard and kind of miserable. Once she learned coping skills, how do indentify triggers, and got meds she was like a different person. A happier person. Of course then she almost immediately got cancer so that just sucked.
 
posted by [identity profile] selie.livejournal.com at 06:18pm on 03/11/2010
Oops, livejournal ate my reply. :( I hate it when that happens.

As I see it, the people these rallies are targeting - the hatemongers, the fearmongers, the bigots and extremists - are the real crazies here. Sure, I have a mental illness, but they're nuts.

I often feel like I got off easy with my illness as well. The bipolar II has caused plenty of problems in my life, and I still struggle with it almost daily, but I've really only got the one disorder. I also suspect I have some sort of anxiety as well, but I've decided not to open that can of worms because I can function as-is. I'm lucky because I can take one of the kindest bipolar meds (lamictal/lamotrigine) and that's all I need, with minimum side effects. And I feel like I must be lucky when I look at the bipolar I people I've known who have destroyed or at least heavily damaged their lives due to their disorder. Their full-blown manic episodes make my hypomanic or even mixed-state episodes look like a walk in the park, I think. So I start thinking I must have it easy and I have no right complaining... which is something I've noticed most mentally ill and/or abused people have in common.

I don't know if feelings of "getting off easy" for you are at all like they are for me. But if so, and if it makes you undercut your own accomplishments - something my therapist once told me...

Don't feel that you've done nothing and that everything must have been easy because you are doing well. You are where you are because you've worked very hard for it, not because your problems must not have been very big. Take credit for your own efforts, because you deserve credit.

And I'm very sorry to hear about your mother. I can only imagine how much that hurt. *hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 06:21pm on 03/11/2010
"I don't know if feelings of "getting off easy" for you are at all like they are for me. But if so, and if it makes you undercut your own accomplishments - something my therapist once told me..."

Oh my yes. My parents also were loopy and as a consequence I have very low self esteem. I love my stepdad now that he is sober, but dear Lord did he ever screw me up when I was a kid. *sigh*

I do undercut all my accomplishments. None of my parents went to college and I have a graduate degree, but I tend to feel like it was an easier degree than a law degree or a medical degree because I loved doing it and I didn't have to take any crazy exams. But I earned my MFA and 4.0 average.
Edited Date: 2010-11-03 06:22 pm (UTC)
 
posted by [identity profile] selie.livejournal.com at 06:25pm on 03/11/2010
And see, I haven't even gotten accepted into any of the MFA programs I applied to, and I only had a 3.9 GPA in undergrad (no grad school yet), so I think your accomplishments are very impressive. :) Plus you've written a functional novel! That's tremendous.

Sometimes I think it's very important for people like us to give ourselves permission to be proud of our accomplishments. It sounds like you have done some wonderful things. You worked hard for them and you do deserve to feel pride.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 06:27pm on 03/11/2010
That's what my husband is always saying to me. And then I say, "Well, it's not like I got into Iowa..." *facepalm*
 
posted by [identity profile] selie.livejournal.com at 06:29pm on 03/11/2010
Hey, at least you're at the point where you can facepalm about this. :) So you can recognize it in yourself.

I'm glad you have someone who can remind you periodically that you are wonderful. I can't even fathom where I would be without my boyfriend's support over the years.
 
posted by [identity profile] mahoni.livejournal.com at 07:09pm on 03/11/2010
This.
 
posted by [identity profile] trinker.livejournal.com at 05:42pm on 03/11/2010
I think I'm so embedded in the mental health/illness model that sane/crazy has become unmoored from that for me. So it strikes me as if someone were to object to the characterization "slouching" on the grounds of scoliosis.

I'm also struggling with considerate word use (I loathe the way "PC" gets used by some people as a term of derision) vs. losing vivid metaphors.

And, dammit - there *is* something disordered about thinking the Tea Party can fix things.

But maybe I'm in denial.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 05:54pm on 03/11/2010
The Tea Party makes me cringe. And I am proud to be a liberal. I love the way they have turned that term into a slur. :D I take it as a compliment.

I have similar experience with the words sane and insane. My stepdad always used to refer to my mother as "certifiable" because she was. My family tends to have a very dark twisty sense of humor. My mother was badly agoraphobic and had bipolar II. My stepdad is often blunt and unapologetic and he says some terrible things--especially for a liberal who taught me to be a feminist.
 
posted by [identity profile] trinker.livejournal.com at 07:57pm on 03/11/2010
politicklers.cafepress.com

"unashamed liberal". ;)
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posted by [personal profile] automaticdoor at 06:12pm on 03/11/2010
I know you're not referring to me because I've not posted about it because Life got in the way, but I think [livejournal.com profile] ladyofthelog and I have the same/similar issues with it because we talked about it in person. I also thought you might have been talking about her.

I definitely don't have the time/energy right now to discuss in detail because I'm super sick and barely conscious, but do know that I'm pretty upset by this usage too and I'm not pleased that people keep skimming past it like HAHA NO BIG DEAL. My main point: I don't think Sarah Palin or Glenn Beck or whoever are "insane" or "crazy." They're calculating and know exactly what they're doing. Why couldn't this be the Rally to Restore Reason? (It even sounds better!) Palin/Beck/et al aren't delusional. They have a viewpoint that is different and irrational. I don't appreciate being lumped in with them. I have been disconnected in a way that I am pretty sure they're not. As someone who is actively discriminated against in her professional life, someone who is viewed as unstable, dangerous, and quite probably "insane" by the licensing board even though we all know I'm perfectly competent to be licensed in my field, I'm not happy with this.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 06:17pm on 03/11/2010
I haven't talked to her about it at all. This post is not about her in anyway.

I see how you are interpreting the word(s) and that particular interpretation did not occur to me at all. I don't feel lumped in with Tea Party people. I feel like the word is being used to express the extremely manipulative fear mongering they use to stir up people. And I do see that as a kind of insanity--in that it is not reasonable or rational. It is not remotely based on logic.

I am sorry that this bothers you so much though and I don't want to use words that upset or offend you or any one else. I can totally see your point. Thank you for explaining it to me. You totally didn't owe me an explanation so I really appreciate you doing it when you're sick and I hope you feel better very soon!
Edited Date: 2010-11-03 06:18 pm (UTC)
 
posted by [identity profile] ladyofthelog.livejournal.com at 09:44pm on 03/11/2010
this x1000000

more when I get home again (wash u friend is dragging me out to see Promises, Promises, my life is so hard)
 
posted by [identity profile] slytherincesss.livejournal.com at 07:10pm on 03/11/2010
Ah, the insensitivities toward mental illness - they always continue. "Sanity" is a loaded term, for sure.

I relate to a lot of what you say. I have bipolar II and anxiety and I will be on meds for the rest of my life, and I'm totally okay with that because if I were diabetic I would do the same to treat a medical illness, which is what mental illness is. It is never fun to have disconnections from reality; myself, I get something called derealization syndrome, which is extremely frightening, and I get obsessed with insects when I'm not doing well. Fortunately, with medication, I haven't had derealization in over a year, and the bug thing is much much better. I find it interesting that many people with a mental illness -- and please don't take this as personal; it's something that I've noticed A LOT in general -- want to qualify that they (OMG!) do not have the kind of mental illness that has (OMG!) delusions or hallucinations or other shit that pushes an individual with mental illness over the line from affected by mental illness to seriously fucking sick ('scuse mah French!). Even within the community of individuals dealing with mental illness, there is stigma. I do find it hard to say that, yes, unfortunately my particular mental illness can include visual (shadows; buggy-like things) and auditory (ear worms to the extreme; the feeling of someone turning on a radio in one's head) hallucinations. These are far more scary to me than they are dangerous to others, but there is this feeling of embarrassment and shame that comes with admitting to such symptoms. OTOH, I think it's perfectly reasonable to discuss one's own experience, and that includes saying "I have X,Y,Z symptoms, but not A,B,C symptoms." Because that is factual. But I do find it interesting that so many people say they "only" have depression, rather than, say, they "only" have schizophrenia, when in truth mental illness, IMO, is a continuum of conditions that each manifests in different ways, and can be equally devastating on an individual level. Of course people are affected more or less, depending. I guess I'm no better, though, because I put in the qualifier that I have bipolar II (depressive) rather than bipolar (manic), because there is that stigma with being known to have mania. It's just something I think about a lot.

Uh, I completely hijacked your post. I apologize! And, again, I hope I'm not coming across as suggesting that you stigmatize mental illness -- I do not believe that at all. Your thoughts just provoked a response on my part that I have been thinking about for a while, and I hope you don't mind that I discussed them here.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 07:24pm on 03/11/2010
You're totally fine. I only meant that because I don't have those kinds of experiences (my mother did) that I may not be able to understand why some of my friends are upset. I'm filtering everything through my own personal experience and trying to grok why other people are upset. I definitely don't think people who have DID, or are bipolar or are schizophrenic are necessarily sicker than people like me who have severe treatment resistant depression. It's just a different illness--the way diabetes isn't Lupus and neither of them are Crohn's disease.
 
posted by [identity profile] glockgal.livejournal.com at 08:23pm on 03/11/2010
I personally don't have opinion to contribute; however, reading the comments has been a very interesting discussion for me. IE: the types of word usage and definition used in an issue where I'm not well-educated. Thanks for posting about this!

Personally, I liked [livejournal.com profile] automaticdoor comment here:

Why couldn't this be the Rally to Restore Reason?

Because yeah - specifics of the rally's point aside, I think the words 'sanity/insanity' are nebulous enough/context-heavy terms that it shouldn't be used for naming such broad, over-reaching, publicly inclusive events like a rally, y'know?

Oh hai, guess I do have an opinion, lol.
 
posted by [identity profile] imaginarycircus.livejournal.com at 08:24pm on 03/11/2010
Right. I found it a difficult conversation at times, but productive and illuminating.
 
posted by [identity profile] kenboy.livejournal.com at 09:16pm on 03/11/2010
Hoping no one takes offense: I've found I'm a bit off the general consensus on the use of some of these words.

I think word meanings do change, significantly, over time. I think the general population today uses "insane" to mean a number of things, none of which actually refer to any sort of mental illness, aside from when the word "criminally" is attached. I'd argue (despite having a terrible tendency to use the word myself) that this isn't the case with "retarded" -- I'm certain kids today are still using that very word to refer to the developmentally disabled -- but I'm equally sure that "insane" has migrated, for lack of a better term, into meaning something else now.

"Insane" now refers to things as varied as the manner in which your dog might act when he's excited to see you when you come home from work, to the amount of snow that has fallen somewhere, to the idea of putting Jay Leno on at 10 pm every weeknight, to the near-magical powers of magnets, to any number of political beliefs. All of that, but it does NOT seem to be used to refer to people with serious mental illnesses, who now would, I think, be much more likely to be tagged with the name of their condition or with the generic "mentally ill." I can't offhand come up with (and maybe I shouldn't try) an intentionally offensive term, but I can't really see "insane" being used in that way, either.

I feel even more strongly about "lame," which I seriously don't think anyone under the age of 60 or so has EVER used in reference to someone who limps. In that case, more strongly because the common use of the word no longer refers to a physical condition whatsoever, while "insane" has taken on these meanings that do refer to mental states, but without any of the original clinical meanings. (Similarly, "dummy," which really no longer is ever used to refer to someone who can't speak.)

Does any of that make sense whatsoever? To me, it's as if, on a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 means the word has no meaning whatsoever connected to its original meaning, and 10 means it still completely has that original meaning, I'd have to say the "n word" remains a 10 (so much so that we talk around it rather than just putting the actual words in quotation marks), "retarded" is probably an 8, "insane" is a 4 or maybe 5, and "lame" and "dumb" are to me at least, a 1, because they've become so separated from their original meanings.
 
posted by [identity profile] belleweather.livejournal.com at 10:33pm on 03/11/2010
Historically, sanity and insanity have never been medical terms. They're legal - and I suppose that you could argue medico-legal in the sense that we sometimes rely on medical expertise to determine when someone is sane or insane - and are a short hand way to discuss whether someone has the proper frame of mind to be legally responsible for their actions, or to make proper and reasonable decisions.

To the extent that the furor is about "OMG, we're talking down to people with medical disabilities", this isn't a word that describes a medical disability. I have a hard time seeing the use of the word as abelist if it doesn't actually carry that history and it makes me (as a word geek) peevish when folks expect me to restrict my use of a word without really knowing what it means. But I kind of suspect that I sound like Humpty-dumpty here, so I'll shut up now.

Contrariwise, based on the historical meaning of sane and insane, I think insane is exactly the word that we should be using to describe the Tea Party and, depending on how peevish I am on that particular day, larger or smaller swathes of the media. If we're talking about folks like Michelle Bachmann and Christine O'Donnell, I feel like "the lack of ability to make composed and rational decisions" is the perfect way to describe them.
 
posted by [identity profile] moonaysl.livejournal.com at 12:40am on 04/11/2010
I'm really glad that you posted this because I think at the very least it's worth thinking about. I'm generally of the opinion that if someone feels offended, it's important to be sensitive to that, even if one cannot fully grok it. So I'm glad to be put in a new space with respect to the use of "sanity" in this context.

I have other problems with things that went down at the rally, but this seems like an important one too.
 
posted by [identity profile] cluelessinchi.livejournal.com at 05:22am on 04/11/2010
Mental Illness is the PC term. Insane is a derogatory word that perhaps that someone who has mental illness could use to self describe such as "crip", "gimp" but is not OK to use when describing others. Does that make sense?
 
posted by [identity profile] effbeye.livejournal.com at 07:04am on 04/11/2010
I think it if had been the Rally to Restore Mental Health it'd be offensive, since "mentally ill"/"mental health problems" are the standard, professional terms for people dealing with some sort of psychiatric difficulty, whereas "insane" is slangy and used for a whole range of things: "This cake is insanely good!" "Sarah Palin's rhetoric is insane!" etc. and now I think means something that is beyond reason.

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